I have a job that makes me to be too busy and whenever I close from work I feel so tired, and I don't even have the energy to login my forum account. The only time I'm free is on weekends and my family is large, if even you want to do something else you may get distracted.
I want to know how you use the forum. Can you engage in forum discussion when you are in the midst of people that your attention can be called at anytime. Or you use the forum when you are free alone, like in the midnight when every where is quiet.
Because I know some forum discussion needs critical thinking and if you are distracted it can decline the quality of your discussion.
@op, learn to enjoy the forum. The truth is that if you don't find this forum exciting, you will still find it stressful and a burden, even if you don't have a job and are doing nothing with your time.
I also have a job outside this forum, but I am always active here reading, even if I am not posting due to where I find myself at that time. Most times, I make use of my break period to do this. This forum broadens my knowledge and there is always something new to learn and people to interact with.
Maybe you should ask yourself why you are here in the first place. If you truly understand your goals here, it should motivate you to be active.
Read when you can and use your free periods or weekends to make constructive posts. Don't make this forum a burden, find a way to make it exciting for you.