I have a job that makes me to be too busy and whenever I close from work I feel so tired, and I don't even have the energy to login my forum account. The only time I'm free is on weekends and my family is large, if even you want to do something else you may get distracted.
I want to know how you use the forum. Can you engage in forum discussion when you are in the midst of people that your attention can be called at anytime. Or you use the forum when you are free alone, like in the midnight when every where is quiet.
Because I know some forum discussion needs critical thinking and if you are distracted it can decline the quality of your discussion.
The thing is everyone you see in the forum here has their own personal life to live as well and it's not as if anyone has a free time for the forum the thing is you only have time for things you prioritize more. No matter what you will always make time for something you are really interested in. If you're a social media type you can't tell me you don't have time for your phone or devices so that's how it is. If you are really interested in the forum then you will have to make time for it one way or another.