I want to know how you use the forum. Can you engage in forum discussion when you are in the midst of people that your attention can be called at anytime. Or you use the forum when you are free alone, like in the midnight when every where is quiet. Because I know some forum discussion needs critical thinking and if you are distracted it can decline the quality of your discussion.
I have a contracted job that has been taking more of my time lately too and it started last last year. For some people they would have abandoned the forum because of how time consuming the job is but my love for the forum has made me that I can't leave. For me I can't write while I'm in the midst of people, I wait to be in my house and in my bed before I can start writing. Some days I'll be writing and I sleep off because of the workload of the day and I was already exhausted before I get home. Better I don't complete post for my campaign than to spam the forum while I'm at work. The forum needs clinical reasoning to be different from others because if we're all just writing the same thing then the forum is off no use. We're supposed to be bringing our contribution based on how we see the discussion and not being forced to sound the same all because we want to get some favours.