Maybe I don't understand your question exactly but my daughter is learning, I'm learning (you'll have to take my word for it as I didn't have to take the tests), we (my daughter and I) are learning about each other as we navigate a shared experience and I believe we are also learning about the learning experience itself.  You (the royal you, unless you have me on ignore) are also learning as I share my stories which is fundamentally how we learn from one another while connecting as humans.  I mean, who isn't learning from this process?  Maybe you focused on the "making me help her" part; I do that willingly and happily.