My biggest mistake was supporting my brother through his higher institution with the hope that when he graduate he will also support me....
But reverse was the case.
What a life.6
I know a lot of cases like this. And it's not just blood brothers but more of a partner relationship.
And that's why don't get invested to your partners that you're not tied with. But with yours, it's about blood matters. We can't dictate what our relatives will do after helping them.
For that reason, always have something for yourself and much better not expect anything in return upon helping.