So, looking to make ourselves gamble with a clear mind is just the start and we have to maintain that whichever is the result, we win or we lose.
That's what I call true mental control, there's no other way, playing at that level brings us much closer to being wise, more professional and without a doubt to accepting the designs of the game with humility and not awakening anger, stress, pressure, I still haven't been able to reach that level, sometimes I feel that I have, other times when things go badly for me I stop and don't play at all, but at least I don't lose money like before, for me the key is in the money, controlling my money, by doing and achieving it my life as a player improved.
If you understand gambling properly I don't think that you will be losing money, as other people who doesn't understand the methods of gambling, they're people who gambles with pressure, so once we are gambling, and you notice that you're at losing side, you have to quit from the gambling knowing that when you gambles on pressure as you said you may not be opportune to win, so gambling is very important, when you know the methods, so when you don't know the methods of gambling you will be losing, for we to enjoy gambling we have to make use of precautions methods