I like what you have said on the last sentence.
Because that is true, we don't have to force things so that we can be good at what we gamble with.
Just relax and let things happen according to its own, there will be less stress and emotion if just relax as we gamble.
It is easy to say but difficult because though there is no other alternative yet, people want to make something different and also want a different result, and that isthe only win. There is no other thing a gambler wants but only wants to be a winner at any cost, and the main reason to be addicted and become a loser is such types of emotion, almost there is no way to be the opposite of it.