I don't like having children. It's easy and doesn't require much philosophizing and interpretation. For this reason, most of my relationships with women have failed to develop into a formal relationship. For me, marriage is all about finding a true life partner to share our ups and downs, and that's enough. Just as I don't like to be tied down to someone who is too attached to her family, I also don't like having children who might one day tire me out or whose rights I might have neglected. Don't call me a "pessimist," because I know circumstances change, and what's best for me today isn't guaranteed tomorrow, no matter how many guarantees there are. These are personal beliefs and preferences, and unfortunately, it doesn't seem like there are women who share my perspective, and most, if not all, consider marriage as a means of procreation.
Are there women who share this perspective? Where or how can I find one? (I know this is bitcointalk not tinder hhh). Why should the concept of commitment extend to procreation as if it were a natural outcome when we are the ones who decide that?
Btw, i live in arabic country with conservative culture. Marriage and having children is a must for everybody and people don't even dare to discuss such topics. What do you think guys?
As a human being, it is within your right to have this kind of idea you are sharing now, but the problem lies with finding a woman that will share the same ideology with you, because the idea of marriage for most women out there is for procreation and for companionship, so finding a woman that will live with you or get married with you without procreation will be difficult to find. So I will advise whenever you resolved to have children you will spend time with and take care of, there and then you should nurture the idea of getting married.
The exception you can have is for probably women that have entered into their menopause and are no longer productive, but to see a woman in a prime that will go with this idea of yours might be difficult.