This needs to be highlighted and be the focus of both sides because at times of high tensions like this, both sides keep pointing the finger at each other. But they need to ask themselves "who benefits from their war". It definitely is neither India nor Pakistan.
This is like divide and conquer strategy. A destabilized Asia is only beneficial to NATO and specifically US and UK. So maybe it's time everyone stopped fighting each other and oppressing the people of Keshmir and instead focus on the real enemy.
During recent conflict many innocent souls died on both sides of border, imagine situation of father or mother who lost his son in this conflict. The conflict is over but these souls won't return ever. It's time for both India and Pakistan to sit together and solve there issues through talk, main issue between India and Pakistan is Kashmir and if they settle that issue then living standard of millions of people in both countries can be raised. If they continue fighting like that then both these countries will be an ideal market for weapon selling countries.