so I came to you to ask for tips or even advice? Can you help me? 
It's simple, don't think that you are gambling to make money, just think that you are gambling just for entertainment and most importantly limit the budget for this activity if you have a monthly or weekly income, just allocate money that you have been able to afford from the start, don't exceed that limit, if basic things like this still scare you, then you shouldn't gamble. 
Your State of mind when gambling is very important, if you focus on making profit it might get you addicted...Most gamblers put in too much hopes in gambling, the main reason why people take a lot of risks is the reward they expect.. it's quite stupid to stake all you have just because you are in need of money... gambling when you are broke is a bad idea, it's not meant to give you Money for emergencies.
This idea is correct. However, there are still a lot of people or gamblers as we say, that are still aiming to get good profit even it means they're risking their payroll. I have seen a lot of people who's been broke but still pursuing gambling in hopes to hit the jackpot sometime in the future.
I'm not sure what's their motivation behind all these, but its's just too pitiful that most of them are a family man. They are not actually destroying themselves, but destroying their children's future as well.