I do not want to lose when I am gambling but if I was to lose, I do not think much about it because before gambling, I have already made up my mind that the money I will be using as my starting bets, it can get lost and still I would not be angry. I did not gamble to lose money but I know that no gambler can escape losing and it will always happen at some point while we are gambling. There are some games that I know I will get good at the more I continue to gamble but I do not put it in my mind that I can become so good that I do not lose again because I understand that it is an impossible thing to happen. It is only the casino that can be in profit all the time but for we gamblers, we are fighting not to lose too much as soon as we start gambling.
I agree with you, when we apostatize it is obvious that we do not want to lose, but basically things happen because they must be that way, and if we lose we must accept it, we cannot force things as we want because that is not how it works and we must be clear about what we are looking for, if you apply that strategy for me you are a complete player, because you have nothing to owe or fear after playing whatever the result, and that is called peace.