Behind every successful man there is always a woman behind them, and also behind every successful woman there is always a man behind them as well, but the life sometimes doesn't always ends as we like. Most times we find ourselves with different person who has a separate vision aside what you are thinking, for a family or a wo/man to become successful the both parties most walk in the same like direction and vision; with this you see them becoming that quickly successful than any other thing. I can also sight an examples of the Igbo's, they are always united in a business that is why in business line today the people who are quickly successful are the Igbo's because they both love business, team together as one easily make them becoming that richer. Marrying a woman who doesn't have same vision with you is like having cold water stocked inside your mouth and expect the cold to get heated so you could used the water to make a tea to take for yourself, which we know is never possible. When find such people marrying together is either the man who was a multi-millionaire sink down to what we can't expect or even crawling because they aren't having same like vision.