I have seen some folks emphasising active trading and some even questioning the fact that of it being seen as a career path where one focuses mainly on gains they make from trading, one side sees trading as hubby, the other as a life. But while everyone is free to make their choices, it doesn't stop the fact that everything worth doing is worth doing well.
The risks in trading is similar to gambling but their differences is that trading can be better if done well and it is not a hubby. What motivates people is the money they can make from trading. If no one is making money from trading, no one will want to trade. Trading is not a hubby.
You are perfectly right sir, trading is not a hubby and will never be, the mental stress alone attached to it makes it extremely difficult for anyone to take it as such, what makes people want to get involved even when they all know that it's stressful and risky is the the money involve, the money you might make if you get it right, anyone that says that he is trading because it's his hubby is not just lying to us but also to him or herself because the emotional and mental stress that comes with it makes it difficult for someone to call it a hubby.