The experience of others can be used as an example so that they are not wrong to make decisions when they want to get married. Finding a commensurate partner can make it easy for us to change life for the better because their support can be a motivation for us to change. Everything has a level of difficulty, but that is not a reason because life needs to be fought for because there is no ease that is gained it is free. I believe in the process even though in the category of partners we must find the commensurate but if we ourselves do not want to struggle to be successful then the encouragement of anyone will not help.
The main thing is that there must be an intention to want to change so that there is a desire to fight tirelessly and this has been done before someone gets married. Because when the struggle that is not easy has become a habit in our own lives, of course when we are married there will be no complaints as long as there is still a way to keep fighting as usual. So the things that can be used as a sector of encouragement to be able to continue to be motivated in fighting are additional menus that are already present in life because basically we ourselves already have the intention to change our lives through the struggle process.