I don't like having children. It's easy and doesn't require much philosophizing and interpretation. For this reason, most of my relationships with women have failed to develop into a formal relationship. For me, marriage is all about finding a true life partner to share our ups and downs, and that's enough. Just as I don't like to be tied down to someone who is too attached to her family, I also don't like having children who might one day tire me out or whose rights I might have neglected. Don't call me a "pessimist," because I know circumstances change, and what's best for me today isn't guaranteed tomorrow, no matter how many guarantees there are. These are personal beliefs and preferences, and unfortunately, it doesn't seem like there are women who share my perspective, and most, if not all, consider marriage as a means of procreation.
Are there women who share this perspective? Where or how can I find one? (I know this is bitcointalk not tinder hhh). Why should the concept of commitment extend to procreation as if it were a natural outcome when we are the ones who decide that?
Btw, i live in arabic country with conservative culture. Marriage and having children is a must for everybody and people don't even dare to discuss such topics. What do you think guys?
Your prospective about marriage and parenthood are cleared and valid, looking for a life partner to share experience and support each other without possibly having children, there are women who share same prospective and beliefs, there are single ladies out there who don’t want children because of pains associated with childbirth, bearing children is a whole lot of work for some ladies, including stress that comes with parenting , All they want is just get a man to live happily with till they leave the planet ,they don’t let societal pressure get to them about bearing children neither having there offspring to continue their lineage.
To me you can find them on social media group that specialize on relationships and marriage or lifestyle and choices , where individual can share similar belief and prospective, also make use of dating platforms so you can state your choice and preferences and values that can connect you to same people with have same belief and decisions, lastly when you meet your potential partner make sure you communicate your choice and goal , try to be honest with them in other to meet people with same decisions and value .