okay thanks for the explanation. I appreciate the help. So in my wallet properties under change addresses P2PKH I have two change addresses. one that appears in my sparrow wallet the wallet I was sending to as a change address and one that appears as the output from armory. I can find the both in the mempool. Both addresses flagged in armory as  rbf flagged. I guess my question is how to I get my change from my pocket back into my spendable wallet to use the analogy. 

What I wanted to do as my ultimate goal was to move my sats to a different wallet.

I did another test without sending any sats so here is what I've been doing. I click on send bitcoin add my receiving address and amount for this one 0.001 btc its sat size 254b fee 0.0000508 (20.00 sat/b) enable rfb checked When I preview transaction two outputs a change address standard PKH 0.1357 btc
and segwit P2WPKH to the receiving wallet 0.001. So why so much on the change address? Why $100 bill for a fraction of a cent?