one of the reason why most graduate couldn't start small is
1] no capital
2] pride
3] no good mentor
in all i think that pride is one of the reason why most of them remain stagnant.
I love the point you raised in this context, but you are wrong to have believed that pride is the major reason people are jobless. How is that even possible? For me, I think you left the major possible reasons ("no capital" and "no good mentor"). Why pride when it is what will better your life and make people envy you? And there are hundreds of works you can choose from if some look unbeffiting. Those who are doing the white-collar job, especially bankers, are bending knees for self-employed people, so it's honourable on its own.
It seems like we can choose a job to always try it always sounds forced, but in reality it is a choice that must be made because in that choice there may not be anything we like. Even so, we need to force the choice and need to try it. I believe that the arrogance that exists can only hinder us from walking for the good in order to find the right job that is certainly in us, it all starts from the bottom to climb the ladder.