What are your goals, what do you want to achieve? In my opinion, it's important to define goals, then think about and find strategies how to reach those goals.

Your account is about two months old. I glimpsed over your posts and without knowing what you really want, I see no point for any judgement. Now, be honest, what do you expect from this forum, what do you want to achieve? I can make assumptions, but why should I?

My post is the 30^th reply to your initial post, so far no response or interaction from you, OP. I don't want to say, that a topic opener should always interact with his topic, but what's the point to not do it? You got some advise here from others and I want to encourage you to discuss and contribute in your own topic and elsewhere if you have something good to contribute. Good and valuable contributions will eventually receive merits. If you have nothing interesting or valuable to contribute, you won't receive anything. It's simple.

Don't focus too much on growth, it can hinder you more than benefit.