Some people have a job and it pays them handsomely every month but yet chose to put themselves in a risky situation that can cause a great harm to them. He betrayed the trust of highly respected members that must have trusted him in his job, he betrayed his family if he had one and he betrayed some friends too. If my friend happens to do this kind of thing, I can not trust him with my money again. Some gamblers believe too much in gambling, they have so much expectations than normal because without too much expectations, you should have only loaned a small amount from that money and gamble with it if it was so important that you needed to bet on that game.