I dont think we should a term like "near-miss" in gambling because it is a loss in simple terms. You dont get a consolation prize for having "nearly missed" you have lost your wager.
If you were playing the soccer match, then things would be different and near missed can be justified but because you are gambling on the outcome, it is either win or lose the bet.
So take as losses, and add them to the loss list that will help you understand that your luck is what matters in the end.
You have a point though, a loss is a loss...But if you haven't experienced something like this then you can't understand the pain that comes with it. It's quite normal to combine a lot of games and at the end of the day have a cut one especially when the potential win is a huge amount of money..this is definitely going to sting for a while anytime you think about how to you were close to making a large amount of money, we can't erase near misses from gambling
Our mind will definitely be that not be able to forget those things on which they had been able to experience specially if its on significant amount and the situation where a game result is almost that air-gapped missed when it comes to score because of some factors that affect it out on which it do bring out that thrill and excitement, fear and other relevant emotions specially on seeing it on a live betting or even on playing with some casino games on which we do know that near misses do really happen. If you dont know on how to control yourself then you might be ending up on having that kind of impulsive betting or gambling on which it will be leading up into that huge loses later on and if you dont have such discipline and control then it will be leading into disaster.