~snipped~
Which is why its best to keep quite and keep it to yourself if you hit the jackpot enough to change your life.
Anyone who seeks validation from others won't be able to keep their success stories to themselves. Gamblers are often known to blow their own trumpet with every opportunity of win they get. The reason I think it's that way is because they want those critics of theirs who think they're wasteful gambling to know there are times they also win.
If possible don't buy new car or house of anything they see you have some money. Because this is going to make people notice you.
You don't have to lead your life for others by pretending not to have when you've or pretending to have when you don't have. My take on this is that one shouldn't be loud about one's win. Of course, I would buy a car or a house if that's what I desire at a time of my win. But I will do it discreetly.