@Don Pedro Dinero
As others already have written you should be not care about what other Users say or write how you handle your Merits to others.
There is a reason that you got an Merit Source and you should give the Merits how you want , if you think a post or topic is worth a Merit just do it.
As LoyceV have written.
You can't please everyone, and that's okay.
Dont let the things getting to close to you , do your thing and the rest of the Trolls and maybe haters dont care about it.