Without a doubt things are like that, I am also a very frequent player, but in reality what I can't stand so much is having so much patience, patience for me is something that is quickly Exhausted and since bonuses are now so conditional and I don't like it, because there are many requirements and that is achieved with patience, perhaps bonuses and contests are for less volatile people who really Enjoy being there, I am a fan of quick results.
The casino wants that type of player too and keep them glued to the to screen, taking their money out every instant while giving them small incentives in between to keep their confidence up.
For them the risk is less important but spending the money and seeing the possibility of making money is.
It is a risky lifestyle often riddled with debts, family issues and conflict. If you keep your debt under control and have a stable income you can get through it.