Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
For discussion in one thread maybe not but when the discussion is a little wide this has happened and I also often find that there are some of us who try to blame the other party including for the casino when we get a situation that we don't expect such as when losing and can't bear it all.
This happens because there are some in us who don't want to be blamed in some occasions when we know we are playing on our own will and when we lose then in the end we ourselves also bear it.
Blaming other parties including casinos would obviously be silly because after all we know that casinos are their place of business so it is quite natural when they get profits and we must be aware that our position is a player so this must be a consideration where the player will obviously lose when we are in gambling because it is a concept that although indirectly but this will happen sooner or later. Blaming others for the mess we make is cowardly and reflects that we still cannot take responsibility for ourselves.