Having that kind of relationship with your man is beneficial. I can't find someone to have that mutual relationship that shall get me and my partner a bonus since I'm kind a loner.
Oh, no, it's not a relationship ... "my man" is an expression in English like dude, mate (m8 like people sms).
Gambling and loneliness do tend to go hand in hand sometimes.
Gotta remind ourselves it’s just a game - not a substitute for real connection.