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Re: Pregnancy before marriage or after marriage, which do you prefer?
by
o48o
on 29/06/2025, 20:20:42 UTC
In my observations in our society today,there is an increasing rate up to ninety percent of men that prefer their woman to be pregnant before marriage, reason been that they feel most women have messed up their wombs out of youthful exuberance and may not be able to concieve again and for this reason most bachelors wouldn't want to stay in a marriage without a child and at such they prefer having a confirmed pregnancy result before proceducing for any marital right, what are your stand on this?
This is like weirdest conspiracy level of seeing things. Have you ever heard the term shotgun wedding? Because the concept of marrying after birth isn't anything new. Marrying after kids isn't about "messed up wombs", but doing the right thing. What you are saying sounds like some weird andrew tate comment blaming women for lack of fertility, when it's usually guys who don't even want to get married or have kids in the first place.

Lot of the younger men fear getting anyone pregnant, because they are supposed to provide and be responsible after that. But when that happens, marriage is just logical next step (for most people).