Thank your for trying to encourage me !
I am trying to not gamble again but when thinking of the debt I have created I don’t really know what to do ..
It cannot paid from my salary at all
One month of my stupidity can cause the destroy of my whole life
What you need to do is get into the hands of a psychologist or psychiatrist specialising in addictions. Today. Also tell people close to you what has happened to you, making it public will make it much more difficult for you to relapse.
Hint: What you say about “trying” not to relapse is a bad mentality.
You've screwed up, big time. You have to take responsibility and make this a before and after in your life but for that you have to put yourself in the hands of professionals, tell people close to you (an anonymous forum on the internet is not enough) and make up your mind that you can never gamble a single penny again.
This is actually what they need to get professional assessment on their situation. Then got those proper help that they need.
They should eliminate the stigma that psychologist or psychiatrist is for those people who are mentally ill because they won't get anything with that thinking and their situation will just became more worse.
People should not be in denial on their situation since losing such huge amount and seems not to be in control in situation is I think a clear sign of addiction. If they became more cooperative with professionals for sure that they would get an immediate help then fine good relief with what they are currently experiencing.