*I will also suggest you hide things that act as triggers or make you remember that experience...for example her personal belongings... You need to heal first, maybe later you get some of her stuff back where they were.
This was hard to do, as it felt a bit suffocating and weird having to do it. I have arranged a few of her stuffs and boxed. I think I'll give myself a bit more time to box the rest of it or allow other family members to do so.