At least you don learn something out of experience. If to say person been tell you to hold on for awhile, maybe you for no gree. Now wey you don learn the lessons yourself, I go say you don outgrow that stage of impatience..
But also understand say sometimes, our decision fit come out right or maybe wrong. So prepare your mind to accept the fate that comes up with your decision. If e favour you, just smile and say Thank God but if e no go according to your wish, still smile and say God knows better. Because life dea like a coin with two sides(head & tail).
Whatever the outcome, just accept it that way and try and!!!