As a gambler, without having to specify on either you are an addicted gambler or a responsible gambler that actually knows how to manage his gambling behavior;
Is gambling really the problem or are we the problem?
Honestly I don't really understand the direction you're driving at but what I'm trying to figure out is that gambling is being understood in different manner and it's in this regards people get the wrong impression and assumptions about gambling and go into it the wrong way. But then gambling itself has no problem and it's more fun and understanding when we know how to control and limits ourselves from gambling activities.