In my observations in our society today,there is an increasing rate up to ninety percent of men that prefer their woman to be pregnant before marriage, reason been that they feel most women have messed up their wombs out of youthful exuberance and may not be able to concieve again and for this reason most bachelors wouldn't want to stay in a marriage without a child and at such they prefer having a confirmed pregnancy result before proceducing for any marital right, what are your stand on this?
Are you using what is happening in your country to come into conclusion that this is happening everywhere all over the world. I don't think that responsible people still have that primitive mindset these days. If you born out of wed luck is fornication and you should also know that it's not everyone that is getting married because of kids. God gives kids and not you. What if the problem is from the man, it means that he wouldn't get married all the rest of his life. Marry your wife before getting her pregnant is the best and ideal way.