Re: Pregnancy before marriage or after marriage, which do you prefer?

reason been that they feel most women have messed up their wombs out of youthful exuberance and may not be able to concieve again

Infertility not only occurs in women but is also more common in men because men often have many bad habits such as alcohol, cigarettes, cocaine...these things have a significant impact on men's health. So don't blame or doubt the woman if both of you can't have children.
In addition, with the development of technology, medicine today has also made significant progress, any couple who doubts their fertility only needs to go for screening.

Sorry, but I feel like this topic is quite misogynistic and demeaning to women by assuming that only women have youthful exuberance and men don't. We are in the 21st century, not feudal times, women and men need to be treated equally.

very true, both need to be treated equally. Men need to understand that woman are not always the fault. Most times, the men are the problem.

It is true that infertility do not only occur in women it also occurs in men too but the high level of casual sex relationship in this generation
Is alarming, You will agree with me that the women I mean the girls are the ones in the receiving end of the story in the situation of getting pregnant and probably refuse to keep the pregnancy by indulging in taken substances that might have a negative effect on them not being able to concieve tomorrow because they don't want to give birth to a child without being properly married, to protect family prestige pride and dignity or religion, this actually act is of the increasing side in most of our societies today which of course is one of the major reason why I brought up this topic of discussion, a lot are really happening behind the scene.