Is gambling really the problem or are we the problem?
Gambling is not the problem, we create the problem. Gambling is a form of entertainment or a way for a lonely person to pass the time. But we misrepresent it and we use it in ways that defeat its true purpose. Those who know how to use gambling properly actually consider it an important means of entertainment. Those who consider gambling as a source of income and cannot even use gambling properly are the ones who misrepresent gambling to the public.
You are right that most gamblers misapply gambling and it sends the wrong message to the general public and makes gambling a negative thing. The important thing about gambling is that even if you gamble for fun, you can still get addicted. The money you allocate for gambling should be limited to a source of discretionary income. Use a plan and strategy to allocate your playing time, such as stopping when you lose or winning. The amount of control you have over your strategy and how you implement it will depend on how much you are able to control it.
Gambling is not a source of income, but rather a source of entertainment. It will be good for you because every activity involves entertainment and there is a compulsive response to losing money.