I am not aware that I broke any rules when registering an account, this responsibility must be on the casinos to ensure that the self-exclusion process helps and protects players.
It's the player's responsibility to know if they are breaking the rules, that's why casinos have Terms and Conditions posted on their website, so the gamblers read them and learn what to do and not to do. no offense, but right now you sound like you are putting all the blame on the casino and not taking any accountability.