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Board Gambling discussion
Re: The solution to gambling…
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Sonia_123
on 09/07/2025, 23:58:17 UTC
The solution to gambling!

As a gambler, without having to specify on either you are an addicted gambler or a responsible gambler that actually knows how to manage his gambling behavior;

How does this kind of subject for a thread makes you feel?
You many at times I see gambling been presented in the wrong light and even then, it’s not be avoided. It makes me wonder, if a person would identify something wrong and still goes ahead to do it to themselves!
Is gambling really the problem or are we the problem?

The human mind as I see it is one that isn’t accustomed to accept fault and take blames. Very few persons in our world has learnt to be the offender, to take the hit even when they are not fully convinced.
If there are those that are able to manage their behavior around gambling and have no problem, why should we see gambling to be a problem other than ourselves to have problems with our behavior towards the gambling?

I really want to understand why is that because, it’s a little offensive and disrespectful to the line of business from my view point. Perhaps I can be convinced otherwise with some logical statements of fact!
The solution of gambling lies within mankind, gambling has being on ground since time memorial and also it's laid down rules and regulations,but we as man don't follow because we tend to think that we know how to man over our ways, but we can't cheat nature, we fail to obey instructions and that is what has lead a lot of gamblers to be addicted which even cost some of them their lives,as humans we are suppose to control our gambling life not gambling controlling our lives, we find it difficult to accept our wrongs, even when being addicted we still continue in gambling because we have refuse to gamble with what you can afford to lose, chasing your losses causes you more harm, until you have nothing left, then we instead of taking care of yourself to come out of the addiction, you put your blame and misfortune on gambling whereas you are responsible for your actions .
I see the main cause of we not wanting accept our wrongs in gambling as greed ,selfishness,and lack of self control which now leads a lot of gamblers living in addiction .
If we are able to follow the rules of good management strategies, then we find ourselves in having lesser problems in gambling affecting our lives.