I will like people to learn from this because many people gamble in secret for what ever reason and the have companions who knows nothing about this and when exposed can cause the relationship to split or have cracks.
If you gamble it is of your interest and that of your spouse, you both need to share same orientation about gambling or given a chance to understand and respect the other person gambling choice and if they won’t then either they go or you reconsider your choice. Why should an adult keep their gambling choice away from their lover that’s deceit to me. Gambling is not a dirty secret.
We have to open up for each others, trust on each other and also take responsibility upon ourselves, because gambling should not cause fight or be the reason for a break up in relationship, it pains me so much in seeing that many are well challenged because of things that has to do with relationship and gambling, and this occur as a result of lack in trust, when each party feels they can on their way hide things for each other all in the name of gambling.