I will like to pass a serious message from the ugly incidence I had witnessed. I have this friends that were couple and have been couple for a long time this guys always share even thing together especially same orientation about life, I was open to them that I do gamble they don’t like it at all but I made them understand that I am an adult and that’s my life, recently the lady found that the guy do gamble and he owned up that he has been doing it for a while too. They are broken up now on the grounds of mistrust.
I will like people to learn from this because many people gamble in secret for what ever reason and the have companions who knows nothing about this and when exposed can cause the relationship to split or have cracks.
If you gamble it is of your interest and that of your spouse, you both need to share same orientation about gambling or given a chance to understand and respect the other person gambling choice and if they won’t then either they go or you reconsider your choice. Why should an adult keep their gambling choice away from their lover that’s deceit to me. Gambling is not a dirty secret.
The common reason why? It is just because that gambling do always share up with that negativity in overall or most of the time on which if people do hear it out then it would be automatically consider that someone whom involved into it considered to be an addicted person or someone whose broke. If you are in a relationship and it turned out that your partner doesnt like gambling then it would be that common sense that you would be trying out to avoid to share it out as much as possible but since there are those individuals who doesnt like on keeping secrets and thats why they would be that totally open on whatever the things on that they do deal up with. There are just that those situations that someone needs up to hide it because they dont want to end up on having that broken relationship just because of gambling on which it might that not ideal but there's no other option if we do keep it from possible break ups.
Even when you are already that married and if your partner found out that you've been that dealing up with gambling then the primary thing that comes up into their minds is that you've been wasting up your money on which it would be supposedly to be used for the benefit of the family on which it isnt wrong though but its not also bad to have some leisure or enjoyment times and as long you do make use of the amount on which you can afford to lose then i dont see any issues or problems into this one.