I will like to pass a serious message from the ugly incidence I had witnessed. I have this friends that were couple and have been couple for a long time this guys always share even thing together especially same orientation about life, I was open to them that I do gamble they don’t like it at all but I made them understand that I am an adult and that’s my life, recently the lady found that the guy do gamble and he owned up that he has been doing it for a while too. They are broken up now on the grounds of mistrust.
I will like people to learn from this because many people gamble in secret for what ever reason and the have companions who knows nothing about this and when exposed can cause the relationship to split or have cracks.
If you gamble it is of your interest and that of your spouse, you both need to share same orientation about gambling or given a chance to understand and respect the other person gambling choice and if they won’t then either they go or you reconsider your choice. Why should an adult keep their gambling choice away from their lover that’s deceit to me. Gambling is not a dirty secret.
Gambling is not a dirty secret, but gambling must be accepted as entertainment. If gambling can be accepted as entertainment, then gambling will not be a dirty secret, and if gambling is turned into an addiction, then gambling will definitely become a curse for a person.
Of course, a man should tell his close people about all his activities because when I am with my wife, my wife is the one who listens to everything. If everything can be told to her openly and if she agrees, then there will be a lot of joy in doing that thing, there will be no fear of hiding. Many relationships break down if there is no good match between husband and wife or between friends or lovers. Therefore, when any work is done, it should be disclosed to the lover between husband and wife if it is worthy of disclosure. For example, the matter of gambling should definitely be discussed between friends, lovers or husband and wife so that later there is no rift in the relationship.