Why should an adult keep their gambling choice away from their lover that’s deceit to me. Gambling is not a dirty secret.
That's right, it's not a secret, but people have different experiences that they don't want to deal with anymore. If a girl finds out that her boyfriend is a gambler and has several stories of gambling addiction from others, as well as having her own negative experience, she will have a corresponding reaction. Many families break up because one of the spouses gets addicted to gambling, after which the family has no benefit from this addicted person; on the contrary, he brings only losses. Why do you need such a marriage? If a guy hides it from the very beginning, then he understands that his girlfriend does not like it. You can't start a marriage with a lie; either you don't hide anything, or you break up. This is the best step.