I know the kind of education I provide for my daughters, and I know I wouldn't have to face this dilemma. But it's a conflicting situation. A father who may be going through a difficult financial situation can overlook it and allow it. In that case, I would leave him penniless as a lesson for his disobedience.

If the father doesn't provide the documentation, someone else will. Young people and teenagers are creative and will certainly find a way to obtain it.