In my observations in our society today,there is an increasing rate up to ninety percent of men that prefer their woman to be pregnant before marriage, reason been that they feel most women have messed up their wombs out of youthful exuberance and may not be able to concieve again and for this reason most bachelors wouldn't want to stay in a marriage without a child and at such they prefer having a confirmed pregnancy result before proceducing for any marital right, what are your stand on this?
If I'm not mistaken, this often happens in the African countries and I feel it's a very low way of thinking. I've heard of stories like this and I've also heard of ones that the girl gets pregnant but the man ends up not marrying her, claiming that she may not be his spec.
I feel if you love someone, you don't need to put them under so much conditions. This mentality needs to change amongst some men because it has made some women who in order not to lose their man go into such an agreement.
I prefer that a woman gets pregnant after marriage rather than before.