I believe in God, and God said, “go forth and multiply,” so for me it’s just right to have kids.
I believe there are many other things God said you should do that you're not doing, and there are the ones he said you shouldn't do that you're doing, but you make sure you must obey this commandment.
Having children brings a different kind of happiness. It’s not just about yourself anymore, you become more selfless, you work harder, and you learn to be more responsible because you want to provide and prepare a future for them.
If having kids makes one responsible, selfless and hardworking, how come we still have so many deadbeat, lazy and irresponsible parents out there? Why didn't having kids make them better people, and why are the kids suffering a life they didn't ask for?
And honestly, we all owe it to our parents too. They chose to have kids, and that’s why we’re even here in this world. Same with you, you’re only here because your parents believed in having children.
A very flawed way of looking at life. Kids are not toys; they're not houses that we give as gifts. They are human beings who will be brought into a cruel world, and they will have no choice but to live through it. They will have to come into this world and face the challenges of the world for the rest of their lives, so the least the parents can do is to make sure they make things better. Shower the kid with so much love, make sure he has everything he needs to make life easy for him, and make sure the child is very well equipped in all aspects of life to handle this life on his own. If you can't do that, then don't have a kid, no matter what your God says.