Re: To have kids or not to? Your opinion from economy perspective
When you are dependent you will see marriage as a scam, making babies will be scary to you because you can't take care of your responsibilities how do take care of your family when you get married and start giving birth.
Nope.Wife (dependent) only need to blame her husband (provider), if the husband blame his wife, he's wrong because he can't fulfill her needs.
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Women are helping mate so as children too when you get old this people takes care of you when you also train them well they become your eyes in future but before we should go into this let's make sure we have a source of income to enable us to take care of our responsibilities.
You have a scary mindset, so you're treating a baby as your investment since you demand him/her to take care of you when you're old. Our kids didn't ask us to give a birth, instead it's the decision from the parents.
Being single isn't just working and survive, but we have other task like make our parents proud and prepare for our old ages.
We need to prepare our own retirement home, not forcing our kids for being an unpaid nurse + unpaid personal assistant.