Normally as a newbie, e dey very necessary to accept any bad mouthing from old members in good faith because na him be the only way you take grow fast in forum. Though most of the things dem wey some newbies dey surfer today na the result of over Sabi forgetting say bad mouthing na very big motivation for you to tighten your belt and sit well. However, just like as you talk na so e just be, because na only when settle down and accept any bad mouthing from the old members you go fit get the knowledge.
This one na the Koko, criticism na normal thing here so for every newbie, they must learn to tolerate, there's no single person here wey them no criticize in one way or the other before them finally grow, na so e be here, what should matter to any newbie is the lesson that's been learned while they are been criticize by old folks, when most of us started we were lashed by some old forum members but the thing is I already have good orientation about how to tolerate and learn from whatever am been told so in my case criticism was like learning to me, I don't pick offense, instead I will even want to thank you for pointing out my mistakes, I think every newbie should grow thick skin to accept bad mouthing or whatever we it is because sometimes it might even be a cruise, for me forum is for learning, relearning, teaching what you have learn without hard feelings, nothing should be too serious rather everyone should keep to the rules.