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Board Gambling discussion
Re: Who do you blame?
by
Mahanton
on 23/08/2025, 17:52:48 UTC
We all have to be accountable on how we are gambling and not that we shift blame on others, gambling is more of a personal decision than shifting of the blame on other people, we should know this, that whatever happens in it, we are going to be more responsible for it, because its all about us and we should not allow for the others to take the full responsibility of what we are expected to be in charge for, also, we should not shift blame on anyone for any failure experienced in gambling.

And when it comes to gambling, the only person that needs to be blamed is the bettor because the betting site is only a platform, and what the user uses it for does not concern the site, and this is why the person betting is the one to be blamed, so I am not even bothered about blaming anyone. The best thing is to have plans when betting so that even when you lose, you will not be looking for anyone to blame, so this is why when you are placing bets, you bet what you can afford to lose. That is the way, and when you are gambling, it is better to just take responsibility and move on.

The betting site will not bet for you but instead it's you who will use the platform to place your bets, though it's usual that after suffering with a loses a person or a gambler will find someone to blame and point their fingers, there are so many raise concerns and opinions but in reality if you don't want to lose then don't go and play as simple as it is so you won't blame anyone as there's nothing to point your finger if you don't associate yourself into it.
These kinds of activities just make me laugh, everything here depends on your own decision, so blaming others after losing, will this doesn't matter to anyone, and no one will care it, because the loss will be yours alone, you are deciding to gamble more with your money, if you lose money, you will be responsible for it, and you will also face problems yourself. So here you should at least have the ability and understanding to consider right and wrong, those who try to gamble more by blaming others like this, they are definitely making themselves look stupid, no one is forcing you to bet, it is absolutely your own decision, so the responsibility of losing or winning is also yours, so it is important to think about this first.
And the funny part is people act like someone pushed them to press that bet button when in reality it was their own fingers doing it this mindset of shifting blame is just an escape from accountability but the truth is money doesn’t care about excuses once it’s gone it’s gone. Gambling has always been a personal choice and the moment you sit at the table or log into the platform you already know the risks so pretending afterwards that it was because of others influence or bad advice is just a way of hiding from the truth if you want the potential thrill of winning you also need to be ready for the sting of losing. In fact the ones who constantly push the blame end up never improving because they never analyze their own behavior or mistakes they keep repeating the same cycle expecting a different outcome and when that fails again the blame game returns so the real maturity is not in winning every time but in owning both outcomes and adjusting yourself instead of pointing fingers. and when you think about it this blaming habit is the exact opposite of what gambling requires because gambling already comes with uncertainty so if you can’t even accept the results that come with your own choices then you’re not really cut out for it every wager is a risk that you agreed to and if you’re not ready for both sides of the coin you shouldn’t be playing at all, also there’s another side to this people who always blame others after losing usually don’t celebrate others when they win if someone gave them advice and they won big they’d take full credit for it but when they lose suddenly that same advice becomes the scapegoat it shows the double standards in their thinking and that’s why many gamblers end up stuck in frustration.