What title says,
unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.
What about you?
I don’t think it’s proper to have kids when you know you can’t really take proper care of them at that particular period, if you are planning to have a kind, then it’s better you are financially stable, at least you should be able to take care of the necessary things which they will be needing. Just imagine that you are not financially good, and you decide to give birth, how are you going to take care of them, you just going to make them suffer, which some children might end up involving themselves into criminal activities just because they want to survive.
Some people don’t really think before having Kids, they might be struggling for survival, and they will still give birth, which is total wrong to me, am not saying you are suppose to be fucking rich before having kids, but at least have a means that you will be able to take care of them, and just give birth to the number of kids you can take care of.