What title says,
unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.
What about you?
I do not agree with your opinion because your words imply that if a person is not well-off, he should not have children, but I want to say that even if he is not well-off, he should still have children. Many people can become well-off by having children. If you observe, you will see that many poor people are having children and they are raising their children as proper human beings. Especially if you go to the rural areas and observe there, you will see that there are many people who, despite being poor, are raising their children as proper human beings and sending them to various universities and colleges. So, if you do not have children, you can never claim to be a man to people because a child is something for which everything can be sacrificed.