I started gambling when I was a kid, it was not initially money but toys.  I see my neighbor playing and betting with their toys and got curious.  It was called "kalog tansan" where each participant have their own "pamato" that involves a battle cap (pamato), shaking them altogether,  and throwing them in the air, the one that lands on a different face than the rest wins. So curiosity triggers me to start my gambling journey.

I can say that I started gambling in neither of the options but then later shifted to win, since in this gambling with toys, the aim is literally to win the toys of the opponent.  It goes on until I started gambling with money.  Yes, there is fun in there, but still the desire to win can't be removed.  I bet all of the gamblers here wanted to win. I don't think it was wrong, but one should implement self-discipline and bet not what they can't afford to lose.