unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.
Sure, alot of people have decided not to have kids due to this reason. And sometimes I don't blame them for making such decision because I have seen a lot of kids been abused due the fact that their parents does not have all it takes to train them. You will see some kids hugging different kind of things along the road, when their mate is in school learning. So I will advise that anyone that does not have all it takes to train up a child should not think of having one.
What about you?
Honestly I'm looking into having kids but first of all I really want to plan for it because everything is about planning because i want my kids to be in a better position which is why I'm struggling hard to put things in the right place before looking into that aspect.