We don't need to prove anything as long as it doesn't harm others, so we will just walk our own path according to what we want.
Indeed, for now, validation seems to be one aspect that is always seen by everyone because of its stigma, so it seems that many people only expect validation from others in order to live their lives according to certain criteria.
However, in the end, this only makes us feel like we’re living in someone else’s shadow, especially when we’re just trying to show others that we’re responsible and want to be seen in a certain light it all feels pointless.
What’s most important is that we must be able to control ourselves regardless of others’ opinions. Why should we care? Because in the end, we can’t force others’ views onto ourselves.
I leave my life in my own terms as long as I am not doing anything illegal and not harming anyone else and for that reason, I don't validate people opinion and acting in the most responsible and private as possible is what matters to me the most, let not get it wrong and leaving based on others opinions.
The world will definitely talk, but what their are saying doesn't really matter as long as we acting in the most self respectful ways, such that even if we gamble we still be seen as responsible set of gambler's